"Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do... For I have chosen him..." — Genesis 18:17, 19 Imagine two employees at a company. Both are competent, both are loyal. But one is always slightly outside the inner circle — they hear decisions after they are made, receive announcements through official channels, and learn the strategy from the quarterly report.
The other has built a genuine relationship with the leadership — they are consulted before decisions, included in conversations that shape the future, treated not just as an employee but as a confidant.
The difference is not talent. It is proximity and trust. When God was about to act on Sodom, He paused and asked Himself a question. "Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do?" The answer, implied by everything that follows, was no.
Not because Abraham was the most powerful man alive, but because God had chosen him and walked with him into a relationship deep enough that concealment felt out of character. God's secrets are not hidden from people; they are hidden for people — for those who draw near enough to receive them.
Friendship with God is not a mystical credential reserved for prophets and patriarchs. It is the standing offer of a God who wants to be known, not just obeyed. The intimacy Abraham carried — the kind that causes God to stop before acting and think about informing His friend — is available to every person who chooses proximity.
The question is not whether God would share His counsel. The question is whether you are positioned to receive it.
Digging Deeper
The description of Abraham as God's "friend" (James 2:23, 2 Chronicles 20:7, Isaiah 41:8) is a designation that spans the whole of Scripture. The Hebrew word used is "ohev" — one who loves. In John 15:15, Jesus elevates the disciples from servants to friends, marking the transition with a specific sign: "For the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you."
Friendship with God, in Scripture, is defined not by emotion but by disclosure — God makes known His plans to those who are close. Psalm 25:14 says: "The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant."
"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." — James 4:8 🪞 Reflect on this: • Do you relate to God primarily as a subject to a sovereign, or as a friend to a friend? How does that orientation shape how you pray, how you read Scripture, and how you expect to hear from Him?
• Are there decisions or directions God has been making known to you that you have not fully received because you were not close enough, or not paying attention? • What would it look like to intentionally increase your proximity to God this week — not your activity for God, but your closeness to Him?
👣 Take a Step Action: Move Closer Spend 10 minutes today in prayer with no agenda other than to be present. No requests, no intercession list — just draw near. Bring a journal and write down anything that surfaces in that stillness.
Return to it at the same time tomorrow. Say: "Lord, I want to be close enough to hear what You are doing before I read about it in the outcomes. Draw me into the counsel of Your friendship. I am not just Your servant — I am Your child, drawing near."
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